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Dear Beth, Rest assured. Know your Saint Mary's classmates are pulling for you. We may not be large in number, but as always, we make up for it in character (or characters!!). We'll have lots to be thankful for as we celebrate our 25th high school reunion this year. Love to you always in thought and prayer. Jean Marie
Jean Marie McCarthy <tigertreat@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 7:07 PM CST
Dear Beth:
I'm thrilled you are on your way back to good health and to us in Chatham. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and I miss your smiling face at Milton. Keep up the great progress and know the Salutis think of you often.
Love, Alicia Saluti

Alicia Saluti <ajim@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 6:41 AM CST
I am so happy about your recovery. Everyday I look in the Caring Bridge and now I am delighted we have heard from you about your success. Thank God. Also, I put in and received my disability. I will be leaving my job July 1, 2005. Hope to talk to you soon.

Grace Noble <amazngras@yahool.com>
Wayne, NJ 07470 - Friday, February 11, 2005 8:04 AM CST

I work with Tom at Willis. Wonderful news! Upon your return to Chatham, tell the big guy to open up the front door and bellow out the good news on his bagpipes for all to hear.

John Reid <reid_jo@willis.com>
Murray Hill, NJ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:37 AM CST
I am thrilled to hear you are so much improved.It is wonderful news. Know we are all thinking of you and hope to see you in Chatham SOON!!!!!!
Carolyn A. Cherry <cacherry@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ United States - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 2:46 PM CST
Oh Happy Day!
What a wonderful surprise to hear your voice on the other end of the phone!
I can't even begin to tell you how awesome it was and how thrilled I am at the moment!
Joy, Joy, Joy!!!

Love, Grace <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 9:36 AM CST
This is the best news I think I've ever gotten in a forwarded e-mail! Best Wishes, Beth! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Ellen Reed
(Chuck's little sister)

Mary Ellen Reed <mellenreed@msn.com>
Beesley's Point, NJ USA - Monday, January 31, 2005 5:34 PM CST
You are one day closer to coming home.
Stay strong my friend.
Loving you and missing you!

Grace <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Monday, January 31, 2005 10:22 AM CST
Beth, We are thinking of you and PRAYING for a very speedy recovery! Please take it one day at a time! YOU have done such a great job so far! Keep up the good work!

Martha Bowles <Bowlzee@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ - Sunday, January 30, 2005 9:41 PM CST
Hi Beth,
I am so happy you finally got your liver! We are all thinking of you and and Tom and your kids!! Now you are on to the good side of life... It can only get better from here!!! love to all and I am thinking of you daily!


Wendy Del Signore Schiavi

Wendy Schiavi <pws@adelphia.net>
Queensbury, NY USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 5:20 PM CST
Hi Beth,
Congratulations! When I first heard you received the "Liver" while at my computer at work, I started praying for you and prayed all the way home. My first message did not appear in the guestbook so I hope this one does. I am still praying for a speedy recovery for you. You have alot of mail here to read when you get able. Lots of friends and alot of people praying for you. I only know you for just short time from Columbia but I know you are a brave woman who has been through a lot. Keep the faith. Hope to hear from you soon.

Grace Noble

Grace Noble <amazngras@yahoo.com>
Wayne, NJ USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 2:06 PM CST

I work with Ed and your dear husband Tom, we are clients from Prime Hospitality and we have been following your progress closely! Please know we are all pulling for you and you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so glad to hear the news of your progress and know the good news that you are on the mend is a joy to all of us as it is to your loved ones.

Please continue to do well and know we are all continuing to pray for you and are here for you. God Bless and our best to you and Tom and your family always.

Ken Rado

Kenneth Rado <KRR@primehospitality.com>
Morristown , NJ USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 5:39 PM CST
I've been following your progress through Ed Soscia.
Your in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Kennedy, Prime Hospitality <KAK@primehospitality.com>
- Friday, January 28, 2005 3:38 PM CST
Hi Beth,

We met at Rosemarie's home last summer, I work with Tom. I am glad to hear that things are working out for you and I pray that God continues to heal you and give you the strength, joy and peace to pull through. When no one else could understand how you feel, He can. May God continue to give your family the strength and courage to help you through this period of your life's journey.

Grace & Peace,

Mary Romany

Mary Romany <romany_ma@willis.com>
Piscataway, NJ USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 9:28 AM CST

When you woke up did you tell Tom he was "pretty"? :)

Love, Grace <gawalsh@verizon.net>
- Thursday, January 27, 2005 8:20 AM CST
Another day...
To pray for you,
Miss you,
And know you are one day closer to coming home.
Love you!

Grace xoxo <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Thursday, January 27, 2005 8:18 AM CST
Tom, Beth and Family

We have been praying for God to heal Beth and for strength and peace to Tom and the children. We are extremenly relieved to hear the second transplant procedure went well and we hope and pray for an uncomplicated recovery so your family can be reunited and get back to a normal lifestyle.

Please know that you all are constantly in our thoughts and continued prayers.

David Shadle <david.shadle@willis.com>
Florham Park, NJ U.S. - Thursday, January 27, 2005 8:02 AM CST
WAYNE, N.J. USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 7:37 AM CST
Congratulations!!!! I hope to see you home, safe and sound. The kids need ' MOM"S home cooking!!!! Best of luck and LIFE (!!!) to you.........Love, Lisa ( at HECTOR'S)
Elisabeth Bunin
Weehawken, nj usa - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 9:53 PM CST
And now from far, far away, from Eastern lands, the sage, soothsayer, visionary...Carnac the Magnificent...

The envelope please...

"Beth Maroney's new organ, something that holds arrows, and what happens when you're cold"

Tear open the envelope...

"name a liver, a quiver, and a shiver"

Ewww, sim sa la bim

Johnny Carson <Johnny_Carson@Heaven.com>
Hollywood , CA USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 12:27 AM CST
Is there any truth to the rumors that you have Johnny Carson's liver?

Ed McMahon <Ed_McMahon@fake_laugher.com>
Hollywood, CA USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 12:21 AM CST
I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you yet but maybe someday Grace can introduce us.

Michael Walsh <mwalsh2@telcordia.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 12:19 AM CST
Hi Beth! I am in tears I am soooo happy for you and your family! You are in our thoughts and prayers and we can't wait to see you back in Chatham!!!! Love, Donna, Tim, Emily, and Matthew Patterson.
Donna Patterson <donfp@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ USA - Monday, January 24, 2005 12:13 AM CST

Wonderful news...finally. We just heard, we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Patrick, Janet, Aidan, Colton and Alastair

The Christie's <patrick.christie@aig.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Monday, January 24, 2005 9:58 AM CST
Got the news from Jenee Moore yesterday and an email from Ed Socsia today . It was so great to hear the good news .
You and your family have been through so much - I can't imagine - but to have a happy ending as this is so wonderful . Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you recover .

jeannette weismantel <jweisman@ffic.com>
chatham, nj - Monday, January 24, 2005 9:03 AM CST
Fantastic news! All of us here at Willis are thinking of you. Wishing you a speedy recovery!
Carol DiLorenzo <carol.dilorenzo@willis.com>
Florham Park, NJ - Monday, January 24, 2005 8:34 AM CST
Oh Happy Happy Happy Day! Speedy recovery and we will keep up the prayers....hope you will be home in time to share some of this winter wonderland with the kids! Love to all..
Maureen, Terry, Kaleigh and Sean Fitzpatrick <fitzTMKS@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ 07928 - Monday, January 24, 2005 8:12 AM CST
GREAT, GREAT, GREAT. All the prayers were answered. Now hurry up and come home. Everyone here at PRS wishes you the best and a quick recovery. Love Mary S
Mary A. Soscia <sunsh727@aol.com>
Fords, NJ USA - Monday, January 24, 2005 6:33 AM CST
Got call from Tom yesterday and it made my day. I'm so happy for you.

Love Ed

Ed Soscia <es127@aol.com>
Fords, NJ - Monday, January 24, 2005 5:55 AM CST
Hi Beth,
Fantastic news! You have been in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you are back home soon.
God Bless, Sandy, Andrew, Madison, Dylan, Kristian, and Winston Roos

Sandy Roos <sandragroos@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 23, 2005 11:49 PM CST
hi Beth - don't think there is a dry eye in Chatham today. What wonderful news!! Many prayers are being sent your way today.

Beth O'Connor <boconnor@aac-us.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Sunday, January 23, 2005 5:09 PM CST
Hi Beth - Congratulations. We just heard the news and could not be happier. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see you back in Chatham.


Katy Hobbis <tkhobbis@optonline.net>
- Sunday, January 23, 2005 1:22 PM CST
Hi Beth -- Just joining the throngs who have heard your news and are thinking of you and wishing you the absolute best!!!! Our thoughts are with you! Love, Laura, Dan, Grace and Audrey Patrick
Laura Patrick
Chatham, NJ - Sunday, January 23, 2005 12:50 AM CST
Dear Mrs. Maroney,
I hope you get better soon!!i hope you come back soon!we miss you in Chatham.Also we got a foot of snow today!!from McCall Moore

McCall Moore
Chatham, NJ usa - Sunday, January 23, 2005 12:26 AM CST
BETH!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!! Cheryl just called me with the GREAT NEWS! I am so happy for you! The waiting is over!! YOU have been such a trooper! I am so proud of you! You are certainly the talk of the town today! WE CAN'T wait until you get back to Chatham! PLEASE call me with any questions ANY TIME!!!!! BELIEVE in the power of prayer!!!! It really works! GOD BLESS YOU! Love, Martha Bowles (My girls were jumping up and down when they heard the news! They(we all) have been so worried about you.
Martha Bowles <Bowlzee@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ - Sunday, January 23, 2005 12:22 AM CST
Heard the great news!! Hope all goes well. I was at Martha Bowles' house last night and we were talking about you and when we thought you might get a liver. How ironic to wake up the next day and read the e-mail from Grace W.!!! Good luck to you and we'll be praying for you and your family.
All the best,
Cheryl Leverich

Cheryl Leverich <levbo@optonline.net>
- Sunday, January 23, 2005 11:32 AM CST
Okay, little bird with big mouth here!
At least I know for the moment you can't do any scrapbooking!
And this is one hell of a way to get out of the shovelling!
We are so excited and praying for you every moment.
You have turned the corner and on your way back home!
What a party it's going to be when you get back!
Love you!

Grace, Michael and Matthew <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Sunday, January 23, 2005 11:02 AM CST
A little bird with a gloriously big mouth(thanks Grace!!) told us of the good news that liver time is here. We are all praying for you up here. I wish you a speedy recovery and to see your smiling face back in Chatham VERY soon!
Carolyn Cherry <Cacherry@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ - Sunday, January 23, 2005 10:06 AM CST
Beth, Hope you are holding up well...I'm sure it must be very difficult to remain patient. Please know you and your family are in our prayers. Warmest regards, Dave and Beth Shadle
Dave Shadle <beth.shadle@rcn.com>
Bethlehem, PA USA - Friday, January 21, 2005 8:16 PM CST
Beth -
Thanks for keeping us informed on your status. We are thinking and praying for your family.

Katy Hobbis

Katy Hobbis <tkhobbis@optonline.net>
- Wednesday, January 19, 2005 12:43 AM CST
We are thinking and praying for you everyday and look forward to seeing your smiling face real soon! Stay strong!

Liz, Ralph, Matthew and Emily Sorrentino <sweetsgirl35@yahoo.com>
Chatham, NJ - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Just checking in to say hello. Grace has been keeping me informed of everything. Keep strong, hang tough.

Matthew still leads the evening prayer with your name. We want you off the list. So get better!

PS. And tell Tom that sometimes I wear glasses! :-)

Mr. Walsh <mwalsh2@telcordia.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 12, 2005 2:30 PM CST
No more scrapbooking!
No more scrapbooking
Not Fair!!!

A very jealous friend who is missing you very much! xoxo
- Monday, January 10, 2005 3:27 PM CST
Hi Beth ,
Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and that I hope you are in good spirits . I know you' ve been down there awhile now .... it's gotta be tough .
will continue to pray that you soon get what you need and are able to come home . All the best . [ will check in with Tom now and then - I'm sure that the kids and him are being taken care of but you never know ]

chatham, nj - Monday, January 10, 2005 12:13 AM CST
Hi Beth,
We're all praying for you here at Long Hill. Declan's doing great in school. Evan Pappas has joined his class
and Declan really enjoys playing with him. We are praying God's best for you. Cheryl

Long Hill Christian Preschool <lhcpreschool@longhillchapel.net>
Chatham, NJ USA - Thursday, January 6, 2005 12:56 AM CST

I hope that you had a Merry Christmas and will have a Healthy New Year! I check the web site often to see that you are still doing well. I hope it will not be much longer till the message says the transplant was a sucess.
I'm sure you had a wonderful visit with your husband and children. I'll look for updated pictures.
Take care - God Bless you

robin waterman <waterman-robin@aramark.com>
merrick, ny usa - Thursday, January 6, 2005 7:18 AM CST
Dear Beth,

Despite living around the corner in a small town, we have never met but I want you to know that the Origenes family is praying for you and your family. May the New Year (hopefully in January!) bring you good health. God bless.

Suzanne Flaton-Origenes <flatons@basf.com>
Chatham, NJ - Monday, January 3, 2005 11:22 AM CST
Dear Beth,
We've been checking your latest updates on your website. The children hqave grown so much since we last saw them. You have such a positive outlook -- as we all do in our family!! Keeping you in our prayers every night.
Marjorie and Jack (Wenderoth) and family

Marjorie Wenderoth <susan.wenderoth@intel.com>
Miller Place, NY USA - Monday, December 27, 2004 8:04 PM CST
Hi Beth:
Just want to say we miss you up in Chatham. We know you'll be back real soon. Think of it as one small sacrifice on your life's journey...the rewards will be great.

The Connors family
Chatham, - Monday, December 20, 2004 9:40 PM CST
Hey Mrs. Maroney! I hope you are enjoying Florida,and i hope you are feeling better and are in good sprits. I hope to see you soon and I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. We are all thinking of you. Love Colette
Colette <KoolCoPuff@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Sunday, December 19, 2004 11:54 AM CST
Hi Mrs.Maroney, I hope everything is doing well down there. I bet you are enjoying beautiful weather. Glad to hear you are keeping busy with scrapbooking. I'm hoping you have a healthy* Christmas, and New Year.
Your neighbor, Corinne <KoolDeen17@aol.com>
Chatham, Nj usa - Sunday, December 19, 2004 11:51 AM CST
Hi Mrs.Maroney, I hope everything is doing well down there. I bet you are enjoying beautiful weather. Glad to hear you are keeping busy with scrapbooking. I'm hoping you have a wealthy Christmas, and New Year.
Your neighbor, Corinne <KoolDeen17@aol.com>
Chatham, Nj usa - Sunday, December 19, 2004 11:46 AM CST
Hi Beth, Happy to hear you're scrap booking is keeping you busy. I'm sure the pictures from Hatteras Island are keeping you amused. We really had a great time down there!! Keep your spirit up. We are all thinking of you, and wising you a Very Merry Christmas. Remember miracles happen at Christmas time! We love you and miss you!! Sue
Sue <Spiccari@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Sunday, December 19, 2004 11:37 AM CST
Hi Beth, it's nice to hear your in good spirits. I can't imagine the waiting, but you know what they say about patience... We missed you at our x-mas party but look forward to and Tom coming next year. If I don't have chance next week, wishing you, Tom and the children a very Merry Christmas and Happy and Healthy New Year! Love, Mary
Mary Soscia <sunsh727@aol.com>
Fords, NJ USA - Friday, December 17, 2004 1:14 PM CST
Getting a little jealous up here in New Jersey!
Scrapbooking almost complete, massages, fine food!
Hey I think I need an organ!
You sound so strong on the phone. Keep up the good spirits and try not to jump everytime the phone rings!

Love you and miss you too much!!!

Your crazy stampin' buddy , Grace <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Tuesday, December 7, 2004 8:59 AM CST
Dear Beth,
Our love and prayers to you, Slip and those beautiful children of yours. I look forward to soon hearing of your safe and healthy return to Chatam!!
Love, Brendan, Donna, Colin, Rory and Jimmy Kelly

Donna Kelly <brendankelly@optonline.net>
Fairfield, CT USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 8:18 PM CST

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Slip and the children.

Michael, Allison, Jeremy and Maggie McCarthy

Allison McCarthy <amccart@optonline.net>
Fairfield, CT - Wednesday, December 1, 2004 9:45 PM CST
dear Beth :
glad thanksgiving you all were together for some good positive energy! keep scrapping and laughing...that helps! I've been looking at warm destinations for when we cash in on your reward! :) love you and our prayers are there for you all!

Anne Burke
Summit, NJ - Tuesday, November 30, 2004 8:19 AM CST
Beth, I learned of your need for a liver transplant from Tom and Patti. I will spread the word and please know that you are in my prayers. My love to you, Tom and the children.
Love, Bunny Hodges

Mary Hodges <mare1119@hotmail.com>
Charlottesville, VA USA - Friday, November 26, 2004 10:50 AM CST
hello Beth: we met in the summer at Jeanette's. want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. keep a positive attitude! we both wish you a full and speedy recovery.
Marie & Vic Zaccheo <mpz21@aol.com>
- Friday, November 19, 2004 7:54 AM CST
Team Walsh is praying for you every night with Matthew leading the prayer. Hang tough. You're in our thoughts and hearts always.

Michael Walsh
Chatham, NJ - Thursday, November 18, 2004 2:00 PM CST
Beth & Tom,
Best of luck. I sure hope things work out for you in Florida.

Dick, Jeanne & Katherine Keeling <richardkeeling@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, GA USA - Tuesday, November 16, 2004 5:39 PM CST
Keep those spirits way up high! We are all keeping our thoughts and prayers with you and your family in support and love. Just take care of you and come back soon - healthy and strong!
Maureen, Terry, Kaleigh and Sean <fitzTMKS@aol.com>
Chatham, NJ 07928 - Monday, November 15, 2004 10:10 AM CST
Beth - you and your family are in our prayers and thoughts. Your family is in good hands in Chatham. Enjoy Thanksgiving in Florida.

Katy Hobbis

Katy Hobbis <tkhobbis@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ - Saturday, November 13, 2004 7:27 PM CST
You are in our thoughts and prayers, as is your entire family. I commend you for being so proactive in your approach - I am sure you are headed in the right direction and wait for good news out of Florida.
Love, Carole, Jim, Joseph, Matthew and Sarah Stubeck

Carole Stubeck <stubecks@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ USA - Friday, November 12, 2004 5:11 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jane Nugent <jrn128@hotmail.com>
Chatham, nj - Friday, November 12, 2004 2:52 PM CST
Dearest Beth,
We shall keep you in our prayers. Wishing you all success and hope for the future.
Love, your cousin & cousin-in-law,
Bob & Lisa Chiaviello

Lisa Chiaviello <lisa_chiaviello@email.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 9:13 PM CST
Beth and Tom
Our prayers are with you and the children. Know we are here for you if there is anything you need. We love you.

Tracy and Rob Crigler <Rtvcrigler@aol.com>
, - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 6:21 AM CST
Beth and family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Believe in the power of prayer!

Carol Crosson
Fair Lawn, NJ - Tuesday, November 9, 2004 2:59 PM CST
I wish this site did spell check.
I meant "while you are gone"!

- Tuesday, November 9, 2004 8:06 AM CST
I will be thinking of you all of today wishing you a safe and successful trip to Florida.
Don't worry the gang will be taken care of.
Love you and will miss you while your gone.
ps I will try not to steal any livers from anyone while working at St.Pats. :)

Always, Grace xoxo < gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Tuesday, November 9, 2004 8:04 AM CST
Beth and Family: While I haven't personally met you yet, I am from Chatham and know of your situation. I have begun to spread the word, and am also aware of the seemingly good news awaiting you in Florida. Am thinking of you and your family and praying for the best.
Carole Ethridge <ethridge@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ - Monday, November 8, 2004 7:55 PM CST

Have been thinking about you nonstop since I heard of your situation. It was wonderful seeing you last month, and am wishing you the best of everything followed by a speedy recovery -

Lori Messina and family

Lori Messina <Lmessina@frontiernet.net>
Washingtonville, NY USA - Monday, November 8, 2004 1:50 PM CST
Beth -

You are all in our prayers! Your angels are with you... we love you!

Mary, Jimbo and children <mgallag303@aol.com>
Stormville, ny USA - Sunday, November 7, 2004 5:45 AM CST
Best of luck Beth. You are in our thoughts and Prayers. Get better.

Yours in beer
Buffalo and Family

Buffalo <buffalograham@Aol.com>
- Friday, November 5, 2004 4:46 PM CST
Beth - you (and your family) are in our thoughts!-
Bogan Family <boogyhun@optonline.net>
Old Bridge, NJ USA - Friday, November 5, 2004 2:14 PM CST
Beth, You are in our prayers. All will work out for you and your family. Another thought: Have you been in contact with the American Liver Foundation? I'm sure they can offer guidance and support network.
w beute <wbeute@aol.com>
kenilworth, nj usa - Thursday, November 4, 2004 12:12 AM CST
Beth, You are in our thoughts and prayers...
Tammy, Ken and Peter <mintonave@yahoo.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Monday, November 1, 2004 9:06 PM CST
Beth - you and your family are in our prayers and thoughts. We'll share the word

All the best

Mike and your friends at AHL <fahner-mike@ARAMARK.com>
- Monday, November 1, 2004 8:32 PM CST
Hi Beth. Hoping the update from Florida is good, and waiting anxiously to hear! See you around campus, and in the meantime, you are always in the Landy prayers! Love ya, Liz
Liz Landy <thelandys@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ - Monday, November 1, 2004 6:51 PM CST
Hi Beth,
I have forwarded your email to all in my address list. Keep up the good fight. We will be praying for you and your family. God bless,
Barbara Garbaccio, Martha's sister

Barbara Garbaccio <barbara_garbaccio@yahoo.com>
Batavia, IL USA - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 9:20 AM CDT

I have begun to spread the word in hopes you will find the donor you need. I am hopefull that your story will have a happy ending. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Robin B. Waterman
Merrick , NY United States - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 5:41 AM CDT
Beth and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. I will spread the word, hope it helps. Take care of yourself.

The Cherry Family
Chatham, NJ United States - Monday, October 25, 2004 10:48 PM CDT
Love you!
Grace, Michael and Matthew xoxo <gawalsh@verizon.net>
Chatham, NJ - Monday, October 25, 2004 3:52 PM CDT
Dear Beth, I received your letter yesterday and I certainly will do all that I can to publish your need. I was Director of Guidance at St. Mary's when Sue and Mark were in school and I have fond memories of them, your family and of course Roberta! Please know you will be in my prayers, please keep in touch and let me know if there is any other way we can help you or your family.
Sister Patricia Costello, O.P. <PatCo57@aol.com>
Convent Station, NJ USA - Wednesday, October 20, 2004 7:48 AM CDT
Dear Beth and Tom.
I would love to help in your guest but I`ve had TB and ca and my organd and blood are not right for this important deed. ypu are all in my prayers Love sis Patti

Patti Botte sister <pacbotte@comcast.net>
RUTHERFORD , nj USA - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 8:12 PM CDT
I am so sad to learn more about you spiraling health condition. Take care and I'll be thinking about you daily.
Pete and I will keep our eyes out for any possible donor.

Patty Longdon <plongdon@earthlink.net>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 9:07 AM CDT
Beth and Family - you are in our thoughts and prayers. I have sent your email to friends to help spread the word. Keep up the positive thoughts.
Katy Hobbis <tkhobbis@optonline.net>
Chatham, NJ - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 8:40 AM CDT
My prayers and the prayers of my family are with you. Your guidance through the early days of my career played a huge part of who I am today. You can count on me to help.

Paul Sagnella <sagnella-paul@aramark.com>
Royersford, Pa - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 6:35 AM CDT
This is a terrible tragedy but this is not the best or only way to go about getting a liver transplant. The best thing for Beth to do would be to go to an area where there are more organs being donated. Florida. California. Johns Hopkins even. You can be put on more than one list.

The waiting list in New York will be long and the people that will be saved is short because they just don't have the supply that is needed.

The waiting list in New York for liver transplants currently has 2138 people on it. I do not know which hospital Columbia/Cornell is affiliated with or how many specifically waiting on that list.

Last year there were only 266 transplants in New York. It would take 8 years for everyone on this list to get a liver transplant - assuming that no one else would be added to the list.

In Florida for example, there are 501 people waiting. Last year they transplanted 348 livers (one of them into my father).

Mayo Clinic - listed as St Lukes Hospital in the data transplanted 141 livers in 2004 and 171 transplants in 2003. And there are currently only 42 people on that list currently. Your odds of being higher on this list are better and also there are more organs being donated.

UNOS has a system that works, but you have to play the numbers. A patient is designed a MELD Score - which indicates the severity of the illness, the chance for surviving the surgery and things like blood type, body size etc. The higher your MELD score the more likely you are to get a new liver.

So talk to your doctors in New York and ask them if there is any reason why you should not be doing everything you possibly can to get a new liver. And if that means you have to head to Florida for the winter, it sure beats the alternative.

I am not saying that you should specifically go to the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville but it is the alternative that my parents made and my father is alive because of it. The folks at Mayo Clinic are fantastic and my dad had his liver transplant on April 14th, 2004.

Best of luck to you and please consider putting yourself on more than one list - and choose a list where there are more organs.

I commend you for being creative about getting a new liver. But there are alternatives.

Feel free to e-mail to me or call if you have any questions. beth@bethryan.com or 310-888-8787


Beth Ryan

Beth Ryan <beth@bethryan.com>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 0:14 AM CDT

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